Might You Be Raising a People-Pleaser?

Its one thing that I identify as a people-pleaser, but caught up in my recovery, I wasn’t paying “conscious” attention to how my disease to please might be impacting my kids.

Might you be “unknowingly” raising a people-pleaser?

I thought it might be a good check-in for all of us to make ensure we are encouraging our kids that it isn’t just “ok” to consider themselves in their decisions, its really critical to their happiness!

Advise as small as “part of being a good friend is learning to say no, with kindness, when you don’t want to do something”.

With my daughter, who is now 6 (and by the way…even at 6 there are struggles in the playground around pleasing!) we do a little role playing. I actually let her hear herself say something like “Rosie, I don’t want to be the mean queen again, I would like to be the princess today”.

People-Pleasers Unite! Let’s deepen our practice as we encourage those around us to love themselves. How amazing is that intention!

Want to Learn More?

If you want to read another mama’s view on this, check out this article by Sonya Spillman; My Daughter is a People Pleaser, or you can listen to my podcast on “Getting Good at People-Pleasing

And, if you’d enjoy a little read on building a tribe that supports you on your amazing journey, I recently wrote this article for my friend and mentor, Davidji,  “Who’s in Your Tribe“.

From my home to yours, sending love, laughter and some “gentle” no’s,

By | 2017-06-13T14:58:05+00:00 June 13th, 2017|Categories: Amanda Weber, Balance, Happiness, Joy, People-Pleasing, Selfcare, Stress|0 Comments

About the Author:

Amanda is a Certified Instructor, Happiness Coach & the creator of The Full Life coaching program and popular weekly Podcast. Following a very successful but highly stress-filled career in the technology sector she decided to do a 360 and follow her passion to help beautiful people, just like you, build a life THEY love WHILE they love and care for those around them, and…..she’s never looked back!

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